hugs and another dastardly meme

[anotheranon]

I was going to write an insightful post about this article about the need to hug and the sad unacceptability of most non-sexual touch, but I think the author says a lot of what I'd try to write, and doesn't stumble miserably over his words as I might :P

What made me think of it was the sexual orientation quiz from a few posts back - hardly scientific, but I found it interesting that some of my most resolutely straight friends still came out as "a little bi" - I'm guessing because they didn't tick the selection for "absolute revulsion" re: hugging a member of the same sex.

I especially find it sad that so many straight men don't seem to feel like they can hug their male friends without being suspected of The Gay. Never having been a straight man, I can't begin to understand what is going through their heads, but I pity them.

See? Hardly well-written or insightful at all. That's what you get from someone who has been writing mostly SQL statements for the past three days :P So sad - I even had to use this little internet toy to design my perfect rock band:

By limitedbythesky

Hell's Belles Stats Formed: 29th June 2005 Split: 21st May 2011 Best Album: 'Rascally Briard Aland Remodify' 9/10 in the NME (Album of the Year 2009.) Best Single: 'Mensal Greeting Graymail' 8/10 in the NME (Single of the Week 28th September 2005.) Records Sold: 677,920 in total (343,337 albums, 334,583 singles). Reputation: Under-rated Groupies: nminusone has earned a contract with a book publisher to print their autobiography "To Spit Or Swallow" which extensively documents their seedy adventures around Hell's Belles. Other Shortly after 'Brim's release in June 2005, anotheranon received a death threat from the Pope who warmed them that if they released such unadultured shite in the future they would disappear in the night. Hell's Belles Member Profiles hadesgirl Thanks to hadesgirl less than heavenly vocals, listening to a Hell's Belles record will take 10 years off your life. timcharmorbien In order to portray their anti-vegetarian sentiments publicly, timcharmorbien used to use a live chicken as a guitar pick. tommdroid tommdroid seems to be more capable at using their bass as a weapon than a musical instrument. shemhazai shemhazai's manages to make an epileptic speed freak from Inverness look co-ordinated. semmie17 semmie17 is to a keyboard what the Pope is to sexual liberty. A bastardin menace. Single Releases # Title Date 33 Juju Bootlace Aug 2005 24 Mensal Greeting Graymail Sep 2005 17 Biddy Dicer Oct 2005 11 Bock Dec 2005 13 Hygiene Dualist Inspan Nov 2006 6 Variant Lupulins Duded Presages Ingroups Jan 2007 11 Erethism Mudslide Ablush Vendue Wooralis Feb 2007 23 Brim Apr 2007 75 Deliver Oct 2008 40 Flotsams Subway Capouch Reclames Plugolas Nov 2008 26 Wiliest Gessoes Resting Britzkas Axillae Goopier Jan 2009 11 Vuggs Dec 2009 17 Daric Wont Feb 2010 22 Eudaemon Slings Glouting Tame Cranked Mar 2010 37 Wildfire Tautest Tatami Daimyo Ideas Apr 2010 Album Releases # Title Date 61 Czardoms Gheraoed Wordage Jun 2005 N/A Bureaux Cored Oct 2006 93 Reproofs Aug 2008 18 Rascally Briard Aland Remodify Oct 2009 northern ireland's worst

Comments

[timcharmorbien.livejournal.com]

I'll accept a hug from friends or family, but I'm not big on being touched by people I don't know, regardless of sex. I don't usually initiate hugs with other people, but I put that down to generic shuffling male awkwardness. :)