hospitality?
Jun. 13th, 2007 11:11 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I've been thinking....
If I want to have people over more often, I'm going to need to be a better hostess.
I'm not talking "Good Housekeeping" cover spotless and caviar served on matching china, but something at least a step up from my current standard "gee, I have some soda and a bag of stale Oreos somewhere....wanna order takeout?" :P
So I put it to y'all: what's good to have on hand by way of munchies/drinks? When's the clutter ok for just us but out of hand for company? What does one do with the cats (obviously, clean/put in bedroom for allergic guests, but what about the rest of the time)?
Suggestions welcome - I've got I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence in transit but the library doesn't have it yet.
If I want to have people over more often, I'm going to need to be a better hostess.
I'm not talking "Good Housekeeping" cover spotless and caviar served on matching china, but something at least a step up from my current standard "gee, I have some soda and a bag of stale Oreos somewhere....wanna order takeout?" :P
So I put it to y'all: what's good to have on hand by way of munchies/drinks? When's the clutter ok for just us but out of hand for company? What does one do with the cats (obviously, clean/put in bedroom for allergic guests, but what about the rest of the time)?
Suggestions welcome - I've got I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence in transit but the library doesn't have it yet.
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Date: 2007-06-14 03:55 am (UTC)Beverages I make sure to have on hand for guests :
Brita pitcher in the fridge with ice cold water, Tiger Tea (which is decaf iced tea that I've seemed to addict my friends to.) a few different soda choices in the downstairs fridge, coffee, and a gazillion different hot teas to choose from. It helps that I have a Sleven two blocks from my place, and a grocery store four blocks away.
As for food, I am usually planning specifically for the number and quality of company. A few friends over for TV watching and snuggling equals ordering in or light munchies. Specific invites for dinner usually involve me cooking everyone a meal, and even setting the table with the fancy stuff.
When there's company coming I usually try to run the vacuum, do some minor straightening and cleaning, and do a general swipe of all counters. (I don't always get to these things, and the majority of my close friends don't care.) For a party, I clean for a whole day, moving clutter to unseen hideaways, and getting rid of piles of catalogs and such that I don't need anymore. I also tend to do a purge of the downstairs shared living areas on a monthly basis to just keep the house looking tidy.
My... I got all verbose-n-shit. ::grins:: Hope that helps.