From Twitter 08-23-2010

• 08:44:40: I feel like I've been hit by a truck - aches all over. Suspect Wii + fencing + big change in temp / weather.
  
• 08:45:09: RT @briandgregory: Hm, bad economy, bad politics, bigotry, and 2 wars ... don't really much care about baseball steroid use. #justsaying
  
• 13:05:31: RT @danphilpott: Visualizing the timeline as traveled in film and TV: http://bit.ly/dAUEVA
  

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being female in public

Originally titled " being pretty ugly female in public but the strikethrough tags won't work in the title :P

Via rm (where do all your links come from??) Physical attractiveness is overrated. And no, it's not a whiny "poor me, I get so attention 'cos I'm so cute" post.

I've been on both sides of the pretty/ugly divide in different places and times in my life and both suck. When I was considered ugly I got sneers, curses, and ridicule - and more of the same if I didn't respond. When considered pretty I got catcalls, gropes, and pestering, plus hostility if I didn't respond. I figure at least when considered ugly people were less likely to want to touch me and the harassment seemed less likely to escalate if I ignored it.

Neither has happened to me in a long time, a fact for which I'm grateful (no, catcalls are NOT complimentary). I suspect this has to do with being a less frequent pedestrian and aging into invisibility, but I prefer to think it's because I've finally managed to put out the necessary bad vibes :P

I will say that one of the things I loved about the (early) internet was the lack of physical presence. To be judged by what I said and how well I said it without it having to pass through the "girl filter" was (and is) a welcome relief.